I’ve been thinking a lot about vocabulary just recently. About words and titles and the way sometimes they are helpful, and sometimes – not. I’ll try and explain what I mean. We’ve probably all had experience of ‘job’sworth’ syndrome – encountering a person who has been given a particular task to do and is sticking rigidly to it with no intention of thinking for themselves when challenges arise that are outside normal experience. The person is subsumed by the role they have been given. Their normal decision making powers are somehow hampered by a fear of stepping outside a clearly defined set of boundaries. As a result of the job or title they have been given, they are somehow lessened as a person.
As a manager in the past I’ve also experienced the reverse, where giving someone a new area of responsibility (or a new title which helps define their responsibilities), has stimulated them to greater creativity, clearer motivation and a flowering of their natural talents. They have experienced their job or title as a recognition of their worth, and responded by becoming a more rounded person.
Within churches we often see a clearly defined hierarchy with one person at the top called Vicar or Priest. This title helps us to recognise that this is a person whom we can approach for help, a person with some authority in matters with which the church is concerned – positive. But it might also cause us to begin to abdicate our own responsibilities for one another because we assume that the Vicar is in charge of pastoral matters – negative. So my question is, what’s in a name? Do we need titles within the family of faith? And if so, is it time to rethink what those titles should be, in order that they free people to fulfil their potential, rather than shackling them to a job description?
Posted by: sanctuarybath | September 4, 2009
What’s in a name?
Posted in Community, Spirituality
I love the roses Clare
and yes, think there’s someing in asking God to fule our imaginations, and to inspire us to walk into what we could do
By: subo on September 5, 2009
at 2:05 pm
Family of faith’ is a title/name too that makes/leads to assumptions – know what you mean re words and names – tricky!
Interesting that God got humans to name the animals (in the Genesis story) and Celtic (+ sci-fi/fantasy – eg Ursula Le Guin) seems to recognise the power in naming too.
Seems to me naming, or giving titles, can be a source of darkness and discouragement (eg Jesus said that it was very wrong to call a brother ‘raca’ – interestingly a process of de-humanisation – a kind of Hebrew swear word that sounds like spitting!) but on the other hand it seems it can be a source of light/encouragement/joy (eg Jesus renames Simon – ‘Peter’ – or ‘rock’). So I think I am headed towards a position that motivation and intent in naming, giving titles, is key.
‘Labelling theory’ might be of interest re this – the notion that systems (courts, police, legal, education etc) can apply labels that become ’self fulfilling prophesy’ so ‘yobs’, ‘thugs’, ‘duffers’ etc live up to the expectation placed on them.
Job descriptions and responsibilities are an interesting one and it seems to me that when people are in healthy relationship the words become less important and trust, freedom and creativity seem to surface via dialogue – in FYT we try to talk of being a ‘mission community’ rather than an ‘employing organisation’ – but this brings its own problems – discourse and reflection on meaning seem more important than ‘tight’ definition.
Interesting in church to be refreshed by people at times who break expected norms re title and position – eg Desmond Tutu sneaking into his local church in ‘civvies’ to take communion from the vicar. The church leader I found cleaning the bogs in his church in Glasgow… perhaps titles are good for exploring and demonstrating humility!
Interesting thoughts any way – thanks – d
By: Dave on September 5, 2009
at 5:04 pm
thanks for the discussion Clare, I think it’s a really important one to talk about
I think as Christians, we are called to catch a glimpse of the Kingdom, and to fully engage with life
I guess we can all think of Pastor’s, Minister’s and Fellow Faithful, who have met us where we’re at, show a valuing of who we are, and an excitement over our dreams and idea’s. These guy’s seem so comfortable with the different ideas people have, the group just grows because there’s room for everyone. They expand your understanding of who you are
I’ve also met a few who look at me blankly, intellectually analyse my concerns and bluntly tell me they don’t want my contribution to their project – I don’t fit
I guess I think it’s a spiritual path in itself, to grow towards inclusion, openness and trust. Leadership is about making room for change, embracing extremes, being honest about our angst, and finding tangible, creative ways of loving each other and building each other up
I really like some of the things Ian is saying on his blog, about missional community
http://inthebellyofthebigfish.blogspot.com/2009/08/ways-into-small-missional-community-4.html
I guess I think those in a position of leadership, have the opportunity to prize and empower others, though it takes an openness to experience to be able to do this
By: subo on September 5, 2009
at 5:54 pm
I agree with Subo that those roses are gorgeous…I can ‘virtually’ sense their sweet fragrance. So, would a rose, by any other name, smell just as sweet, or is it a case of giving a dog a bad name and it sticks. Dave, I see what you mean about labelling.
When I was a small child, I remember that people used a whole range of unpleasant terms to describe people with ‘learning difficulties/disabilities’ and thought nothing of it (actually, I find even the acceptable terminology a bit cringe-making). In the years which have followed, these have been replaced with other apparently more acceptable terms. I was chatting a few weeks back to a woman who had worked as a ‘Special Needs’ teacher and she would come out with acronyms I hadn’t heard but upon describing the conditions and hearing the awful definition, I was able to furnish her with the current acronym. It seems that we are becoming more educated in the terminology we use and can be more specific now…instead of ‘He’s got special needs’ we can name the problem. I hear people say, “He is ADHD…He is Asperger’s, she is Down’s Syndrome”. The person no longer has the condition appended to them, they have become the condition, which I find more than a bit disturbing. I feel it stops us seeing the person. I think it is the Asperger’s thing which hammered this home to me. I have a friend who got this label a few years back. I have never spoken to her about it but I gather that it helped her make sense of a lot of stuff in her life. But actually she is one of the most fabulously quirky, intelligent, amusing, entertaining and interesting people I know. When I see her she brightens my day and I wouldn’t have her any other way. It is just a personality type. Imagine if we labelled all personality types as though they were a disease? We would have miserable b*st*rditis, chronic doormat syndrome, narky git disease. When you name it, it seems to take on a life of its own. I think it is part of our make-up to analyse and classify things, but it should not be to the detriment of celebrating the individual.
Sorry, Clare, I seem to have got right off the point.
By: Carole on September 5, 2009
at 6:51 pm
Seems ‘on subject’ to me Carole. Interesting bit in ‘Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night’ (great book!) where the young man with Autism talks of ‘the locals’ insulting him and his friends by shouting ’special needs, special needs’ at them!
I think terms like ‘the homeless’, ‘the poor’, ‘drug users’ etc are just as bad in that they seem to want to constrain people into a certain condition rather than allowing for the diversity, beauty, surprises that characterise humanity. Labels restrict, confine and de-humanise. I try to use the expression ‘people who are homeless’, ‘people who use drugs’ etc – I know it sounds a bit obsessive, or PC, but it helps me!
“Labels are for jars not people” is what I say (a phrase started by @People First I think). There is some interesting FYT research into the way that young people are labelled by adults, there is a free down load of the research at http://www.fyt.org.uk/showdetails,pdf,64.htm if you or others are interested.
By: Dave on September 6, 2009
at 9:44 am
Umm, what is in a name/ title. We all bring so many of our own ideas, thoughts to particular names and titles. We’ve been thinking about this at work recently while we were going through the process of recruiting a new manager- lots of conversations about the difference between a manager and leader. Different ideas about what people wanted etc!.
There are some names/ titles for me which are really unhelpful- like leader in a church. To me it represents ( don’t take this the wrong way my lovely male friends!) a patriarch man who likes to be ‘in charge’ make all the decisions and consult with no one!- not helpful I know
- so I naturally shy away from anyone who uses the word leader in a church context. Maybe it is about people/ groups reimaging what the titles/ jobs/ roles are. To have an open discussion and share their thoughts/ dreams/ worries.
I agree your point Carole, the description you were giving about children sounds like the medical model of disability rather than the social model- see the condition first and then the child later (if at all!)- I’m sure that is not how God would want us to view them.
By: soniamain on September 7, 2009
at 7:35 am
Interesting comments all. I am intrigued to learn that there is such a thing as labelling theory. And I believe I have uncovered a case of miserable b*st*rditis in my own home this evening. Thank goodness you brought this syndrome to my attention Carole or it might have gone undiagnosed for the forseeable future
Sonia I like your idea about re-imagining roles/titles – I think Dave is right in that there is something powerful about naming which can be very positive – or negative. I am trying to imagine how an organisation might function without titles – would everyone feel empowered or would it be total chaos with no-one taking responsibility? There is probably a commune somewhere where it has been attempted – I’d love to know what happened as a result!
By: sanctuarybath on September 7, 2009
at 8:19 pm
By: Carole on September 7, 2009
at 9:28 pm
I so like what you say Carol, about how we ‘label’ people who have disabilities
for a while at church there seemed to be a thing about calling people who were difficult to get on with ‘autistic’. Having worked with people who genuinely were autistic, I could see how unhelpful this is. the autistic people I knew did work in a different way to me, yet they really wanted to be friends, show they cared, and try to understand me.
By: subo on September 8, 2009
at 10:09 am